That's awful, for anyone to judge anyone else's creative process or output and then to make nasty comments behind their backs too. Everyone's got their own way of writing, there's no correct way of doing it. (My best and most prolific writing comes on my high emotional pain and/or high autism days. I can barely string two words together verbally on those days, but put me in front of a keyboard, and it might end up being a 20K word day. Thank god(s) for spellcheck, because my dysgraphia is high on those days too. DX And then I might not write for days on end.)

And some days we just can manage to be cheerleaders and friends, and that's good too, because someone is always going to need a cheerleader. :)